My sister and I were Barbara's bridesmaids. I remember visiting her at Camberley and Worthing before she moved. We were always warmly welcomed and well fed. She was sometimes called upon for her nursing skills when the family needed her, and I will always remember how she looked after George in his final years. Steve and I enjoyed our visits to Milton Keynes and she was fond of our granddaughter Lilah. I will miss our chats on the phone.